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New York Support Resources

Statewide and national support services for people in New York seeking crisis help, safety planning, housing, legal support, recovery resources, and survivor-centered care.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are in emotional distress, experiencing a mental health crisis, struggling with substance use, or thinking about suicide, call or text 988. For local service referrals including shelter, food, housing, and crisis resources, dial 211.

You do not need perfect words to ask for help. Start with 911, 988, 211, or one of the resources below.

Domestic Violence

  • New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence
    State agency focused on domestic violence prevention, survivor resources, training, and statewide policy.
    https://opdv.ny.gov/
  • New York State Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline
    24/7 confidential help for domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call: 1-800-942-6906
    Text: 844-997-2121
    https://opdv.ny.gov/
  • New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
    Statewide advocacy, education, prevention, and domestic violence resource network.
    https://www.nyscadv.org/
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline
    24/7 confidential support, safety planning, and crisis help.
    Call: 1-800-799-7233
    Text: START to 88788
    https://www.thehotline.org/
  • StrongHearts Native Helpline
    Support for Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/
  • Love Is Respect
    Support for teen dating abuse and unhealthy relationship dynamics.
    Call: 1-866-331-9474
    Text: LOVEIS to 22522
    https://www.loveisrespect.org/
  • Domestic Violence Help for Men
    Male survivors can contact the New York State Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline, 211 New York, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline for support and referrals.

Mental Health / Crisis

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
    National crisis support for mental health, suicide prevention, substance use crisis, and emotional distress.
    Call or text: 988
    https://988lifeline.org/
  • New York State Office of Mental Health
    State mental health services, crisis resources, treatment information, and program support.
    https://omh.ny.gov/
  • NY Project Hope
    Emotional support and crisis counseling resources connected to New York State mental health support.
    https://nyprojecthope.org/
  • NAMI New York State
    Mental health education, advocacy, family support, peer support, and local affiliate connections.
    https://naminys.org/
  • SAMHSA Find Support
    National mental health and substance use support information.
    https://www.samhsa.gov/find-support
  • FindSupport.gov
    Federal support resource directory for mental health, substance use, and crisis needs.
    https://www.findsupport.gov/

Addiction / Substance Use

  • New York State Office of Addiction Services and Supports
    State addiction treatment, prevention, harm reduction, recovery, and support services.
    https://oasas.ny.gov/
  • New York State HOPEline
    24/7 help for substance use and gambling-related concerns.
    Call: 1-877-846-7369
    Text: HOPENY to 467369
    https://oasas.ny.gov/hopeline
  • FindTreatment.gov
    Search for addiction treatment, mental health treatment, detox, outpatient care, inpatient care, and recovery programs by location.
    https://findtreatment.gov/
  • SAMHSA Find Help
    National treatment referral and support resources for substance use and mental health needs.
    https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help
  • 211 New York
    Search detox programs, counseling, recovery programs, addiction treatment services, housing help, food, and local support referrals.
    Dial: 211
    https://211nys.org/

Homelessness / Shelter / Housing

  • 211 New York
    Search for shelter, housing assistance, food, utility assistance, transportation, crisis resources, and other local services.
    Dial: 211
    https://211nys.org/
  • New York State Homes and Community Renewal
    State housing programs, affordable housing resources, rental assistance information, and community housing support.
    https://hcr.ny.gov/
  • HUD New York
    Federal housing resources, rental help, homelessness assistance direction, fair housing support, and local HUD contacts for New York.
    https://www.hud.gov/states/new_york
  • FindHelp New York
    Search local shelter, housing, food, transportation, financial assistance, and social service programs by ZIP code.
    https://www.findhelp.org/
  • Adult Men’s Shelter and Emergency Housing
    Use 211 New York, FindHelp, HUD New York, or local county/city service offices to locate emergency shelters, transitional housing, and housing support.
  • Family Shelter and Housing Support
    Use 211 New York, New York State Homes and Community Renewal, HUD New York, and local community agencies to locate family shelter, rental help, and emergency housing support.

Legal Help / Protective Orders / Family Law

  • LawHelpNY
    Legal information, self-help resources, and referrals for New York residents.
    https://www.lawhelpny.org/
  • Legal Services NYC
    Free civil legal help for eligible New York City residents.
    https://www.legalservicesnyc.org/
  • New York Courts Help Center
    Legal forms and self-help guidance for protective orders, custody, divorce, family law, housing, and civil court needs.
    https://nycourts.gov/courthelp/
  • New York State Bar Association Lawyer Referral
    Information for finding legal help, lawyer referrals, and private attorneys in New York.
    https://nysba.org/

Victim Rights / Crime Victim Support

Sexual Assault Support

  • New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault
    Statewide sexual assault advocacy, prevention, training, and survivor-centered support resources.
    https://nyscasa.org/
  • New York State Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline
    24/7 confidential support for sexual violence and domestic violence.
    Call: 1-800-942-6906
    Text: 844-997-2121
    https://opdv.ny.gov/
  • RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline
    24/7 confidential sexual assault support and online chat.
    Call: 1-800-656-4673
    https://www.rainn.org/
  • StrongHearts Native Helpline
    Support for Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/

County / Local / City Support

Use these tools to find help near you in New York. Local services can vary by county, city, ZIP code, funding, availability, and eligibility, because naturally the system made “getting help” into a side quest.

Special Populations

  • Male Survivors
    Male survivors can use New York survivor service programs, 211 New York, RAINN, 1in6, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline for support and referrals.
  • Teen Dating Abuse
    Love Is Respect provides support for young people experiencing dating abuse or unhealthy relationship dynamics.
    https://www.loveisrespect.org/
  • Native Survivors
    StrongHearts Native Helpline supports Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/
  • Veterans Crisis Line
    Support for veterans, service members, National Guard and Reserve members, and loved ones.
    Call 988, then press 1
    Text: 838255
    https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/
  • LGBTQ+ Youth Support – The Trevor Project
    Crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people.
    Call: 1-866-488-7386
    Text: START to 678678
    https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

Quick Reminder

If you are scared, unsafe, struggling with addiction, facing homelessness, or thinking about suicide, start with 911, 988, 211, the New York State Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline, or one of the resources above. You do not need to explain everything perfectly. You just need a place to begin.