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New Mexico Support Resources

Statewide and national support services for people in New Mexico seeking crisis help, safety planning, housing, legal support, recovery resources, and survivor-centered care.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are in emotional distress, experiencing a mental health crisis, struggling with substance use, or thinking about suicide, call or text 988. For local service referrals including shelter, food, housing, and crisis resources, dial 211.

You do not need perfect words to ask for help. Start with 911, 988, 211, or one of the resources below.

Domestic Violence

  • New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence
    Statewide coalition connecting survivors with domestic violence programs, advocacy, training, and safety resources.
    https://www.nmcadv.org/
  • New Mexico Domestic Violence Program Directory
    Find domestic violence shelters, advocates, and local survivor services across New Mexico.
    https://www.nmcadv.org/find-help
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline
    24/7 confidential support, safety planning, and crisis help.
    Call: 1-800-799-7233
    Text: START to 88788
    https://www.thehotline.org/
  • StrongHearts Native Helpline
    Support for Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/
  • Love Is Respect
    Support for teen dating abuse and unhealthy relationship dynamics.
    Call: 1-866-331-9474
    Text: LOVEIS to 22522
    https://www.loveisrespect.org/
  • Domestic Violence Help for Men
    Male survivors can contact local New Mexico domestic violence programs, 211 New Mexico, StrongHearts, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline for support and referrals.

Mental Health / Crisis

Addiction / Substance Use

Homelessness / Shelter / Housing

  • 211 New Mexico
    Search for shelter, housing assistance, food, utility assistance, transportation, crisis resources, and other local services.
    Dial: 211
    https://www.211.org/
  • New Mexico Mortgage Finance Authority
    Statewide housing programs, rental assistance information, affordable housing resources, homelessness support, and homebuyer programs.
    https://housingnm.org/
  • HUD New Mexico
    Federal housing resources, rental help, homelessness assistance direction, fair housing support, and local HUD contacts for New Mexico.
    https://www.hud.gov/states/new_mexico
  • FindHelp New Mexico
    Search local shelter, housing, food, transportation, financial assistance, and social service programs by ZIP code.
    https://www.findhelp.org/
  • Adult Men’s Shelter and Emergency Housing
    Use 211 New Mexico, FindHelp, HUD New Mexico, or local county/city service offices to locate emergency shelters, transitional housing, and housing support.
  • Family Shelter and Housing Support
    Use 211 New Mexico, New Mexico Mortgage Finance Authority, HUD New Mexico, and local community agencies to locate family shelter, rental help, and emergency housing support.

Legal Help / Protective Orders / Family Law

  • New Mexico Legal Aid
    Free civil legal help for eligible New Mexico residents, including housing, family law, public benefits, consumer issues, and domestic violence-related legal needs.
    https://www.newmexicolegalaid.org/
  • LawHelp New Mexico
    Legal information, self-help resources, and referrals for New Mexico residents.
    https://www.lawhelpnewmexico.org/
  • New Mexico Courts Self Help
    Legal forms and self-help guidance for protective orders, custody, divorce, family law, and civil court needs.
    https://www.nmcourts.gov/self-help/
  • New Mexico State Bar
    Information for finding legal help, lawyer referrals, and private attorneys in New Mexico.
    https://www.sbnm.org/

Victim Rights / Crime Victim Support

Sexual Assault Support

  • New Mexico Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs
    Statewide sexual assault advocacy, prevention, training, and survivor-centered support resources.
    https://nmcsap.org/
  • New Mexico Sexual Assault Program Resources
    Find sexual assault advocacy, crisis services, and support through statewide and local programs.
    https://nmcsap.org/
  • RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline
    24/7 confidential sexual assault support and online chat.
    Call: 1-800-656-4673
    https://www.rainn.org/
  • StrongHearts Native Helpline
    Support for Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/

County / Local / City Support

Use these tools to find help near you in New Mexico. Local services can vary by county, city, ZIP code, funding, availability, and eligibility, because apparently getting help requires a scavenger hunt with paperwork now.

Special Populations

  • Male Survivors
    Male survivors can use New Mexico survivor service programs, 211 New Mexico, RAINN, 1in6, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline for support and referrals.
  • Teen Dating Abuse
    Love Is Respect provides support for young people experiencing dating abuse or unhealthy relationship dynamics.
    https://www.loveisrespect.org/
  • Native Survivors
    StrongHearts Native Helpline supports Native American and Alaska Native survivors of domestic violence and sexual violence.
    Call or text: 1-844-762-8483
    https://strongheartshelpline.org/
  • Veterans Crisis Line
    Support for veterans, service members, National Guard and Reserve members, and loved ones.
    Call 988, then press 1
    Text: 838255
    https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/
  • LGBTQ+ Youth Support – The Trevor Project
    Crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people.
    Call: 1-866-488-7386
    Text: START to 678678
    https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

Quick Reminder

If you are scared, unsafe, struggling with addiction, facing homelessness, or thinking about suicide, start with 911, 988, 211, the New Mexico Crisis and Access Line, or one of the resources above. You do not need to explain everything perfectly. You just need a place to begin.